“A relationship is meant for TWO people. But there’s always someone that comes around who doesn’t know how to count.”

i’m no saint but maybe i would never be involved in an adultery case ever in my life. someone once asked me if stealing boyfriends (more commonly known as sulutan) has been one of the most #trending things to do this 2012. well, for sure its not in my bucketlist, never will it be included on my to do list. but how come people have managed to live in this world, pray to the Heavenly Father, and have the confidence to face the world despite how dirty they are. srsly? i don’t understand how they manage to exist, talk to their mother, friends and colleagues as if they’ve never hurt other people. its really irritating to see those kind of people live as if their so pure and always say in defense that they’re just fighting for the one that they love. Haven’t they remember the 7th Commandment Thou shall not commit adultery was just next to the 6th Commandment of Thou shall not kill? They may have never killed a physical body but being the reason for one’s death of soul can equalize those murderers, its not just visible to the eyes but its still killing. i’m no pastor but i think its really against not only the morality but respect for someone’s feelings. i disobey rules but this one, no matter how i love someone, no matter how hurt am i, no matter how it will make me happy, i will not be the third party. i can wait forever. i’m willing to wait forever no matter how stupid it will be but i will not took advantage of someone just to satisfy myself. why? i think, its because when i was young, i suspected my father to have another family. its not yet proven but i saw & heard evidences that can prove it. being an only child, the effect to me, changed my world. i hated him for doing that to my mother, who have been always loving and caring for him. and in return he’s acting as if he’s so pure and accuses my mother of doing that. my goodness. my mom even don’t go out much nor talk in the phone cause she’s so busy at home. but then, he’s still my dad and we still have our family. anyway, maybe you’re thinking its an issue for the married but whatever relationship you have, even if its just boyfriend-girlfriend, once you started it, it will run in your life. first time might lead to addiction. its really selfish. i’m selfish but this is just one thing hard to accept. cause society has made it acceptable. i know its wrong to judge other people because i don’t know the whole story but i just want to stand up for the victims of being charged as bitter. this is not survivor that we must forget our GMRC. no matter how nicholas spark like the story you have, the bottom line is, you benefited from someone’s misery. have a safe trip in hell.